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Untangled Knots's avatar

This post definitely sparked a lot of things in me. I’ve lived in east Asia for 15 years already and unlike many westerners who come here, I didn’t find (nor look for) a group of English speaking friends. I speak Mandarin and Japanese more than English if you don’t count online.

There is so much to say about the values of each country and culture, not only the countries culture but also various groups within each culture.

My experience is that most people in Japan and China admire western culture and many are jealous of it, but the recent trajectory of both American politics and power have changed things for some people.

I actually feel many people have desires similar to when you were young but they don’t actually pursue them. Instead they fantasize. Both individualism and collectivism have their healthy versions and unhealthy versions and then they can interact with each other in a balanced or unbalanced way.

Do you speak Chinese?

I will have to write something about this at some point…but there are so many angles to take. Not only the east vs west thing but also how things are decentralizing and generalizations become less and less applicable.

Thank you for stirring me!!!

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Peck Gee Chua 蔡佩芝's avatar

Beautifully written. I appreciate your honest reflections and introspection. And can relate similar in my journey. I now have newfound appreciation for Asia, its culture deeply rooted in every facets of our lives. Still searching and still learning. Looking forward to reading more 😌

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